The energy we’re sitting in right now is calling for radical honesty and responsibility. The eclipse cracked open a lot of illusions, and now comes the part where you integrate what was revealed. And one of the biggest themes surfacing? Control VS Surrender.
A lot of you are trying to micromanage how your manifestations come into physical reality. You want it on your timeline, in your exact way, with love n light blown up your ass and when it doesn’t happen like that, you get frustrated. That ninja grip on control is actually creating more obstacles and challenges than you realize.
For many, it’s not just about control - it’s about refusing to pivot. You’re either stuck trying to make something work that isn’t meant for you, or you’re forcing a pivot into someone else’s lane because you’re comparing yourself. You’re watching what other people are doing, absorbing their noise and energy from the internet instead of going inward and listening to your own fucking intuition.
Here’s the truth: surrender is not the same as doing nothing.
Surrendering doesn’t mean sitting around waiting for something magical to break down your door. It means allowing things to unfold without attaching yourself to a specific outcome or timeline. It means trusting that if something isn’t showing up, it might be because the universe is cooking up something better, or because your path is being redirected toward the open door you’re not seeing while you’re busy beating down the closed one.
If things feel sticky, hard, or impossible right now - whether it’s in your relationships, your finances, or your personal life - that’s not a sign that you’re cursed, unlucky, or a victim of bad timing. It’s a sign that what you’re doing is out of alignment.
When you insist on controlling the outcome, your subconscious steps in with sabotage. It convinces you to cling to old patterns, false securities, or stories rooted in fear and self-doubt. You literally create obstacles that don’t exist because the brain would rather stay in the familiar discomfort of control than surrender into the unknown.
And sometimes? That control even looks like failure. You force yourself to fail before you even get started because deep down you don’t trust yourself enough to succeed.
But this eclipse energy is asking for something different.
It’s asking you to stop pushing what isn’t meant for you.
It’s asking you to notice where your energy is going, and whether you’re feeding problems or calling in solutions.
It’s asking you to face the raw truth of your situation and stop running from it.
This isn’t about burning everything down. It’s about recalibrating. It’s about coming back into alignment with who you really are and what’s actually working. It’s about shedding the false identity built on comparison, control, and fear - and stepping into the truer version of yourself.
The doors you’re meant to walk through don’t need to be forced. They swing open when you’re ready to surrender.
And I always teach my clients that the way you want to navigate the current transits in astrology is by following the nodes. The lunar nodes are going to guide you along this path that you’re on right now. You have the ability to elevate to this higher octave of Pisces - or for some of you, you’re gonna double down and go back into an old lesson with the South Node in Virgo.
No path is wrong or right. No path is superior to the other. There’s nothing wrong with repeating lessons - but some of you don’t have to. You just keep choosing it, over and over again. You think life is happening to you instead of for you because your perspective and your nervous system have created this mindset that continually confirms the reality you’re living in.
If you want to see problems, you’re gonna see problems. If you want to see solutions, you’re gonna see solutions. It’s all about your level of awareness and how you view your life.
So when something doesn’t work out, you keep trying to force it. You keep pushing against it. You keep playing the victim and saying, “I’ve tried all these things and it’s not working.” But you’re not though. You’re choosing to only look at what’s not working.
The folks who are thriving right now are the ones focusing on what is working. They’re following where the energy flows. They’re saying yes to the intuitive nudge even when it doesn’t fucking make sense - because, trust me, it rarely does.
Intuition doesn’t make any fucking sense. There are so many downloads and directions coming in right now that are calling us to pivot into something completely different - a full-on death and rebirth.
And we have to be brave enough to take that next step. We have to have surrender and faith at our deepest capacity - faith that Spirit is moving in our lives, that God is working on things we can’t even see yet. That there’s a bigger plan that could work out better than we ever imagined - if we let go of needing to control how it shows up.
Because that need to control is what’s limiting your life.
Most of what’s falling apart right now isn’t new. It’s not random. It’s the accumulation of choices and patterns that haven’t been working for years. The eclipse energy just ripped the bandaid off.
And this isn’t about shame. It’s not about self-deprecation or criticism. It’s about taking your power back. It’s about remembering that you are capable of changing your life right now - of changing the entire trajectory. Of elevating beyond what you perceive your limitations to be.
Life loves you. Spirit is in your corner. God wants to see you succeed.
The doors that are meant for you will never need to be forced. They’ll swing wide open the second you stop gripping so tight and finally, fully, surrender.